We’ve Been Here Before

This week I wandered around the whitewashed homes, pruned gardens, and split-rail fences of Colonial Williamsburg. The rebellious spirit of our founding mothers and fathers still permeates the open-air museum that depicts colonial life in early America. It filled me with pride and wonder at the courage of our nation’s first citizens.

Colonial Williamsburg

The story of Colonial Williamsburg sits in sharp contrast with the recent rash of political antics set off like so much political gunpowder by some of our country’s most immature, power-hungry demagogues.

In Texas, the governor closed down commercial trade at the Mexican border- snarling up 2.4 billion dollars of the Texas economy. Florida’s most powerful citizen decided to teach the state’s largest private employer a lesson about criticizing his anti-gay legislative agenda. He signed legislation removing Disney World’s ability to govern, collect taxes, and develop infrastructure for their theme parks. Expensive costs likely to be leveraged onto local Floridians. Meanwhile, Georgia’s 14th congressional district is currently using the 14th Amendment to deliberate on whether its representative engaged in insurrection.

Shocking as this raw, misuse of political power is, it’s happened before. And it usually backfires. History, once again, is repeating itself. 

DeSantis, Abbott, and Greene could have taken their lessons from as far back as 1775, when Lord Dunmore, a royalist representative of King George, reigned as governor of the Province of Virginia.

Thomas Jefferson Authoring the Declaration of Independence

In 1775, political temperatures ran high. On April 21st, fearing a rebellion of his Virginia colonists, Lord Dunmore secretly removed the state’s cache of gunpowder from a storage magazine in the capital of Williamsburg. Virginians were mad. They believed the gunpowder belonged to them and essential to their protection. Bad timing. Two days before the heist, the Battles of Lexington and Concord took place in Massachusetts, and the governor’s move effectively kickstarted the start of the Revolutionary War in Virginia.

Dunmore was forced to flee the capital. He retreated to Norfolk to form an army. The casualties at the battles of Lexington and Concorde left him with no access to British troops, and he was forced to raise soldiers without the aid of the British crown. Desperate, he declared that he would free any enslaved male Virginians of the age of 18 or older- if they joined the Ethiopian Regiment.

The Ethiopian Regiment; Liberty to Slaves

While freeing slaves was a brilliant idea, this plan didn’t include women and children. It offered conditional freedom to some single men, but endangered the lives of other enslaved family members. Dunmore wasn’t a humanitarian, he was an opportunist.

Like some of our politicians of today, he was only interested in retaining power, and his strategy included trying to divide people to do it.

Since 40% of the Virginia population were slaves, and most commerce relied on slave labor, the strategy was designed to divide the rebel colonists against each other, and give the English royalists the military edge.

In the end only about 1100 African slaves signed on, most of them perishing during their service to the king.

For 247 years we’ve been slogging through this messy business of democracy. We still have a long way to go to get things right. But the revolution started because we didn’t like power-hungry politicians trying to control us, divide us, or try to tell us what to do.


The difference between Lord Dunmore and our modern day politicians- is that now we have a democracy. We elect our public servants. It might be time to remind them that they work for us, our Constitution, and our democracy, not their own personal, political gain.

De-stressing in the Time of Covid

These days modern living can be overwhelming. It’s little wonder that, as we enter a third year of a global pandemic, it’s necessary for us to discover new ways to destress. It feels as if we’ve all received an unrequested demand from the universe, insisting on our personal growth. If you feel like you’re flailing, you are not alone. So now what? Mask, check. Vaccine, check. Booster, check. Despite taking handwashing to a whole new level, we are still left with unsettled minds. The human brain is wired to keep us out of danger. The primitive part of our brain, the amygdala, works 24/7 to look for ways to ensure our safety. And for many of us, it will not quit.

One of the first steps to sanity is to get consciously grounded in the present moment. Inhale, and take a deep breath. It’s only from a place of clarity that we see the situations we have control over. We control our social interactions. We control where and when we grocery shop. We control how much news we consume on the subject of Covid-19. Becoming aware that we have some control, and recognizing where these points are, helps settle the mind down. Experts say that changing our perspective, and therefore our energy, is a critical component to well-being. According to Joe Dispenza, Doctor of Chiropractic, scientist, and New York Times bestselling author, it’s important for people to take time out of the day to change their energy in order to change their circumstances. “If you can change your energy when everything in your body, your mind, your spirit, and your environment seem to be conspiring against you– if you can reconnect to the energy and emotions of your future, in that moment– I promise you, you’re going to alter your reality in some way.” 

 Andrew Huberman, doctor and Professor of Neuroscience and Ophthalmology at U.C. Davis, says an essential activity for destressing is to develop a gratitude practice. “Gratitude is a mindset that activates the prefrontal cortex, and in doing so, sets the context of your experience, such that you derive tremendous health benefits.” Huberman maintains that not every kind of gratitude practice works, however. In his Apple Podcast he reports that making a list and feeling grateful for what you have- isn’t enough. Your brain can’t be tricked.  “… you simply can’t lie to yourself. You simply can’t say, oh well, every experience is a learning experience.” Our brains know when things, clearly, are not well. Huberman says that the exercise that brings the most beneficial results to the practitioner is to receive gratitude from someone else. It’s not every day people go around extolling our virtues. Luckily, one can get the same effect from watching, and connecting with, two other people exchanging stories of gratitude. Huberman says that story is deeply embedded in the human psyche. Our brains respond powerfully to the stories we tell each other, so build a network of people for whom you are grateful, and who are grateful for you.  

 There’s another practice worth looking at and that’s developing the art of self-compassion. Rather than trying to garner self-esteem, which is derived from external sources, self-compassion is an inside job. It’s rooted in some simple ideas. The first is practicing self-kindness instead of self judgement. Give yourself the kind of support you would give a close friend. The second is to realize we all share a common humanity. Kristin Neff, author, doctor, Associate Professor of Educational Psychology at the University of Texas at Austin, states on her website, “…self-compassion involves recognizing that suffering and personal inadequacy is part of the shared human experience – something that we all go through rather than being something that happens to “me” alone.”  

 Destressing can be done in those brief moments in the busy day where you can take a deep breath and ground yourself. The practice of exchanging gratitude isn’t an airy-fairy thing, but a real way to restore your health and bring a more positive context to any situation. And last, give yourself a break. We humans learn through our mistakes and everyone makes them, including you. It’s a natural part of our evolution. In short, appreciate yourself. Remind yourself that you are doing a great job, and one day this will be over.

Shopping Palm Springs-

It is fabulous living in one of the world's most glamorous vacation destinations. Palm Springs allows you to soak up the glamour of old Hollywood, explore the wonders of the desert and local hot springs, or dive into the hip, mid-century culture found everywhere within its city limits.

If you are  coming to the desert for a rest, the sight of hummingbirds flitting in and out of the bougainvilleas may just lull you into to pulling up a chaise lounge, and taking a nap by the pool.

However, once you are rested, tanned, and loving life again, you might want to step out and enjoy shopping in some of these very special stores. Here are three of my favorites-

 

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“M” DESIGNER VINTAGE & more... at 185 South Indian Canyon Road is a fashion lover’s dream. The booty collected by owner Monika Dickerson during 30 years as an international stylist, leaves you hopping from treasure to unique treasure. J’adore Dior and Fiorucci tee shirts will take you back to the 70's and 80’s. A vintage collection  of Emilio Pucci lingerie and Yves Saint Laurent smoking jackets provide ample evening wear options. The owner even boldly picks from new collections of known and unknown designers, proving that good design never goes out of style. 

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The desert air is drying to the skin, so if you don't want to look like a cactus visit h2o Closet, Modern Apothecary at the shops at 1345 N. Palm Canyon Drive. They carry everything you need to be exfoliated and glowing after a day by the pool. Skincare is elevated to a minor religion in the Coachella Valley so make sure to stock up on Rodial’s lip glosses and Needle-less Botox. Explore the dry brushes, jasmine and rose oils, and perfumes. Don’t miss their beautiful collection of Turkish towels, perfect for your next trip to the pool. 

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If your secret fantasy is to visit a Moroccan riad, look no further than Pure Atlas at 139 East Tamarisk Drive. This home decor store is spilling over with small leather goods created by a refugee leather craftsman from Hermès of Paris, poufs (cushions) created out of African fabric, exquisite candles made with Moroccan essential oils, and brass lanterns designed with great detail.  Surprisingly, none of these exotic finds come with steep prices. The owners Mark and Matthew, have backgrounds in architecture and museum curation, which is evident in their choices of furniture and objet d’art that perfectly complement the Spanish architecture so abundantly found in Southern California. 

As Time Goes By-

 “It’s still the same old story, a fight for love and glory. A case of do or die” 

 There’s a memory I’d like to share with you –

While on vacation in 2000, I toured the Musée Jean Moulin located in the Montparnasse district of Paris. It is the national French resistance museum dedicated to honoring Jean Moulin and the other brave freedom fighters of World War II. While wandering through the rooms, I asked one of the security guards a question about an exhibit using my remedial French. It essentially boiled down to, "How was Hitler able to invade France?" He looked flustered, and in French told me he didn't understand me. Embarrassed, I tried again. After several unsuccessful exchanges, I gave up and moved to the next room.

I was in the museum that day to try better understand how the war and ensuing invasion of France really happened.

What I learned in high school history class was-

 Germany was devastated after World War I, and the German Workers Party (the precursor to the Nazi party) elected a young Austrian who said he would "Make Germany Great Again."

 "But,” he said. "The Jews are the problem."

So he segregated them, and marched them off to concentration camps. Europe didn’t speak up because it was just the Jews, and it wasn't happening to them.

Then he invaded Poland. This made Britain nervous, so Neville Chamberlain got Adolph Hitler's word that the German dictator would invade no further. It was easier than standing up to Hitler, and after all it wasn't happening to them.

Momentum took hold, and then the despot invaded Belgium, Holland, Russia, and bombed the Catalan nation in Spain.

 France didn’t take action, it wasn't yet happening to them. And then one horrible day it was. Young French men were being deported to Germany, so they fled to the hills and formed the 'Maquis'-- a network of over 250 freedom fighting organizations.

On December 7, 1941, Japan bombed Pearl Harbor, and then it was happening to the United States.

But let me get back to my trip to the Musée Jean Moulin-

Standing in the next room few minutes after I had spoken to the guard, a British citizen and fellow museum goer approached me.

"Your French is just fine," he said. "The guard is embarrassed to tell you the truth. Too many citizens were willing to look the other way until it was too late."

I got the message on that day in the museum. It's important, especially now as we head into the election, not to look the other way. Most democracies are destroyed by the targeting of specific groups- with total disregard for, and the intended decimation of their human rights.

We have symbols from our past, like the museum or an epic film like Casablanca, to remind us to enoble all that is decent about standing up for what is right. As we we go to the polls tomorrow to vote, remember, "The world will always welcome lovers, as time goes by."

Vote Your Heart

Vote Your Heart

Vote your heart...

Sweet Dream of Ice Cream

Cicadas sing. Crickets chirp. That's the song of summer in the desert. Lizards fix one wary eye on you as the temperature climbs to 115° or higher. It's the intense dry heat and sunshine that make this destination so exotic.

Postcards from PS... 

Postcards from PS... 

Even in the summer Palm Springs beats as a thriving destination for tourists. Mist machines from the local businesses shoot little jets of water in the air, hoping to keep you cool enough to keep you shopping.

The coolness soon evaporates and its time for refreshment that is more rewarding.

Imagine homemade hot fudge and locally grown fruits and nuts mixed into homemade ice cream.

Located in the middle of the downtown shopping district, my favorite place to stop is Great Shakes. The cool interior is a time trip to the 60s, filled with pictures of the Rat Pack and vintage candy.

Constructed more like a sundae, every shake is topped, with whipped cream or a marshmallow that has been blasted with a blowtorch to a caramel finish. Each treat comes with a straw, accessorized with a homemade lemon cookie.

Organic milk from Alta Dena dairy, and flecks of  walnuts with locally grown dates make a Palm Springs favorite- the date shake.

Lemon lavender, banana graham, salted caramel, date walnut. Staying cool never tasted so good.

Banana Caramel Graham... 

Banana Caramel Graham... 

Au Revoir Tahiti

what happens in Tahiti, stays in Tahiti...

what happens in Tahiti, stays in Tahiti...

It has been a crazy two weeks. If you have a bucket list, then by all means, put a visit to the Marquesas Islands on it. There is nothing that will change your outlook on life faster than visiting an island in the middle of the ocean inhabited by less than 600 people, then traveling to the next island inhabited by less than 200 people, and on to the next island…

Each one the Marquesa Islands has its own individual ecosystem. Birds, flowers, and trees- not found anywhere else in the world, not even on neighboring islands- are right there for you to explore. Farming and sporadic tourism drive the islands' economies, and the citizens of these islands are genuinely happy for visitors. Life here is comparatively rustic. It will make you grateful for all the luxuries you have, and profoundly sad that you don't live with this kind of insane beauty every day....  and every night the Milky Way sets a band of light across the sky.

Tahiti, Bora Bora, and the rest of the Society Islands have been visual backdrops for movies like South Pacific, The Bounty, and The Blue Lagoon. There is color here everywhere. Polynesian beaches made out of coral or lava rock come in three colors- white, pink, or black. The sky and sea represent in a myriad of blues, aquas, and seafoams. As beautiful as the scenery is, this is the place to grab your snorkeling gear and take a look below sea level. Kingdoms of coral, tropical fish, stingrays, and other sea creatures are awaiting your discovery.

Polynesia is not like other places. It's ancient history is archived only through the oral tradition of storytelling. Its warm and open culture is accepting of visitors, and quite frankly it's chicly French. This is the place to dive into tiki legends, unwind with Polynesian dance, absorb the beauty of the scenery, and get in touch with your inner free spirit.  

Me, I'm going back. The tattoo on my leg is temporary, but once I work up the  courage, I hear there's a guy on the beach in Moorea named Giles... 

sunset over Moorea...

sunset over Moorea...

Tahitian Vanilla- Taha'a

Today we landed on Taha'a. Known as "Vanilla Island", the delicious scent of the vanilla orchid lingers like perfume in the air. It is one of the islands’ largest crops, the production and export of Tahitian "Black Gold" totals over 25 tons annually.

A popular island practice is to infuse coconut oil with vanilla, which is then used diversely for both bodycare and baking.

The vanilla tastes different here. Not just used as a requisite baking ingredient in cookies and cakes, Tahitian vanilla takes on a more dominant role in Polynesian cooking, showing up in savory dishes as well as sweet. 

Lobster with Tahitian vanilla sauce

Lobster with Tahitian vanilla sauce

A break in the photo shoot. Lounging on the motu. 

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Tamanu Oil- Bora Bora

One of the best kept beauty secrets in the world can only be found only in French Polynesia. Used globally by the world's most exclusive skin care companies, tamanu oil is  prized for his healing properties. Taken from the ripened nut of the tamanu tree, this resinous and smoky scented oil is used to heal burns, treat scars, and nurture the condition of skin. It can be found everywhere in  Oceania – pharmacies, spas, and the even local markets.

tamanu tree...

tamanu tree...

Revered by the Polynesian culture- the tamanu nut is also carved and used in the making of Marquesan jewelry.

 

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Men’s Marquesan necklace made with a carved tamanu nut...

Gauguin's Home - Hiva Oa

 During late 1800s, painters were the social media marketers and travel editors of their day. Their canvases recorded the beauty of the world, both in and outside of Europe. Where they painted, people followed. At this time, France and other countries were expanding their colonies in the Far East, South America, and beyond. So it was no surprise when Paul Gauguin caught the travel bug and headed to the South Seas. 

 Landing in Tahiti, he fell in love with the strange new territory halfway across the world. A beautiful world filled with savages. Paul Gauguin brought the world of Oceania to Europe.

 Knowing his work would startle and disturb, he wrote a book called Noa Noa. In it he gave an intimate view of Polynesian life, educating the reader about island culture while explaining the inspiration for his work. Gauguin settled into the island community, deeply identifying with the Polynesian people, and their plights and travails with the process of colonialization.

 His revolutionary use of color and form, along with the exotic theme of his artwork, ushered in a new style of painting.  Gauguin changed how artists like Picasso and Van Gogh viewed art, and with his unique subject matter he gave Europe a birds eye view into daily life in the South Seas. 

Gauguin Centre, Hiva Oa...

Gauguin Centre, Hiva Oa...

Modern day Hiva Oa is a mostly a rural and farming community with tourism as its chief source of revenue. It is home to the Gauguin and Jaques Brel Centres.

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the welcoming committee...

Room With A View- Fatu Hiva

Volcanic rock rises out of the sea to create one of the Marquesas' most beautiful and remote islands. Making the most of it's limited resources, Fatu Hiva is known for its tikis carvings and the living tradition of tapa making.

 Tapa, cloth pounded out of bark, was used to make the island's traditional garment-- the "parau" or pareo. Nowadays, it is rarely used for clothing, but remains an art form, in which the Polynesian culture lives on.

tiki... 

tiki... 

The significant tiki carvings that dot the island tell the history of the people who lived there.

balcony view from the M.S. Paul Gauguin...

balcony view from the M.S. Paul Gauguin...

Fakarava and A Day At Sea

Fakarava is one of the largest and most beautiful atolls in French Polynesia. Because of its rich ecosystem, Unesco has designated Fakarava a part of its biosphere reserve. This remote destination is reknown for its pink sand beaches and blue lagoons. Snorkeling, diving, and bicycling, provide visitors with entertainment.

the models take an afternoon bike ride... 

the models take an afternoon bike ride... 

Another day of ocean travel takes us closer to the Marquesas. We cross into another time  zone-  and set our clocks a half-an-hour ahead!

sunrise at sea...

sunrise at sea...

Pape'ete Market & Day #1 At Sea

 Pape'ete is a seaport town. Before the ship sailed I wandered the dockside market. Stalls with local women weaving flowers and coconut palm leaves together into crowns called  "Heis", rimmed the perimeter of the market. For sale inside were fresh fuit, vanilla beans, and the country's largest export--Tahitian pearls. 

 The first day on board was at sea. Destination-- the Marquesas. The islands of Polynesia cover an area larger than the continent of Europe, and the Marquesas are at the outer end of that territory.

 It's hard to imagine what the 19th century European travelers might have experienced making this trip amid the luxury on board the MS Paul Gauguin. They might have eaten the same Moorean pineapples and other local fruits on board, but there the comparison probably ends.

Navy water and choppy white foam surround us everywhere. Tomorrow's destination –- Fakarava! 

 

Le marche... 

Le marche... 

Styling the shoot…

The bags are packed. The driver has arrived, and we are on our way to LAX to catch the redeye to Tahiti. Two weeks in Oceania. This must be a dream! Four models, three art directors, two stylists, and one very large ship-- the Paul Gauguin.

For the next two weeks I will be styling photos taken around French Polynesia for a luxury cruise line. 

 Adventures like these are always full of joyful anticipation and excitement for the thrill of seeing the unknown!

the essentials.... 

the essentials.... 

First Blog Post-- Of course it's about Fashion

…….what is a blog? It seems to be a personal, yet very public diary. A manifesto of individual consciousness posted for the whole world to see……..

The first thing that comes to mind to talk about is fashion. From a very early age, it seeped into everything I thought about or did. It’s what I am involved in today. What I wore was an expression of individuality that represented how I wanted to show up for life. Lately I have been getting my inspiration from an unexpected source- my three-year-old niece. Setting aside the fact that she has a great eye for color and detail, three year olds don’t suffer the pitfalls of body consciousness. Life is about getting up in the morning and putting together an outfit that takes you from pre-school to soccer practice. Combining a soccer jersey with a tutu and accessorizing with metallic moto-cross boots for inclement weather makes perfect sense. Having worked their way through the ‘terrible twos’, a three year old has at least one year’s experience under their belt deciding what their personal preferences are-- and telling the rest of the world about them! When you are three, you don’t worry about whether your butt’s too big. Nothing about you is too big, and you haven’t yet been indoctrinated into a society where social currency is measured in appearance and body type -----

When does self-awareness and comparison set in?

For me, it started when I went to work. I became too concerned with looking like my tribe, and not standing too far out in the crowd. Over the years, as I have gotten to know myself better, I tend to avoid the pitfalls of fashion trends that don’t work for me. I still like color and prints, and tend to want to wear lots of them together. I am also mad for anything quirky, or that has a bit of bling. Dressing up seems to give extra importance to even the most mundane moments of my life. I think it’s important not to lose the joy of self-expression that fashion can bring. 

Instead of waiting for Vogue to come out every month, isn’t it better to just check in with yourself to see what you want to wear? It’s important not to lose a sense of child-like wonder and creative expression, and to not care too much about what other people think. There is so much satisfaction in individuality.

Here’s to wearing stripes and prints together...............or what ever you'd like! 

thanks Greta!